Consider the Lilies of the field.........---an "epitaph"--
One can still influence this world after we depart...I think we should all leave an "influence":

Here lies one dead lily the things she wrote were silly She screamed from her coffin "do not place my lily friends on top, leave the door open for them to visit often" It is my one wish, I do not ask a lot In an open field not a burial plot place me, I will toil not, complain not, die not, forever

Or:

I am but one of many blooms in a crowd of flowers. We all feel the rain in our faces and the wind in our petals, the bees buzzing and flying inside us to take and smudge us with pollen. We feel the seasons change, we grow old, wither, die, and return in the Spring, to push our glorious heads up thru the earth to bask in the Sun once more.

Or:

Here lies the Lily of the Day She wrote book, poem and essay Which brought her fame,fortune all her way

Or:

Here lies the Lily who drew, painted and stetched, She wandered about with brush and palette She was dismayed when all her great works were declared self-portraits.

Or:

Here lies the Anti-Lily She toiled, and toiled, and fussed and with much todo, accomplished nothing.

Or:

...................to be continued